Posted on: 2015-04-04 by Stuart92

Well last night, i had let's say not the strangest dream, but somehow one of the most intense, that gave me love feelings during the day. Well i cant recall in detail the facts but as i remember i was in love with a girl, a girl i can not associate with someone i know. Well we were some outside and around us there were other persons friends of mine but they really didn't matter. The point is that it was like a lucid dream, i could contriol somehow what i did. I was so in love with that girl, that she was there all the dream. At some point i was holding her in my arms and telling her that i don't want to lose her because i need her, and then she told me that i won't . My reply after this is what had the impact on me, i told her something like this "I know, but i am afraid that this is a dream and i'll lose you imediately i will wake up.", the fact that made me think at this dream all day is that i consciously told her that. If a dream specialist can tell me the meaning of this it would be great, i'll waitin' for a reply


EBsomniator on 2015-04-04 said:
You are correct in referring to this dream as lucid, and the lucidity in you dream has a purpose. Your dream is revealing to you a weakness. You want something you are not allowed to have. The intensity of the love you felt for this girl is indicitive of the desire you feel for for this forbidden thing. This dream is also revealing to you that if continue pursuing this thing you're not allowed to have, fear will dominate your relationship with it. You felt like you were in love with this girl even after waking up because there is a point being made as to how much you want what's forbidden. You want it so much that the desire for it will last long after you spend time with it.


Stuart92 on 2015-04-04 said:
Thank you, for the reply. I think you are right, i never tought at this from this point of view. I've been all the kinda depressed or simething like that, thinking about that dream and trying to connect that girl to someone i know. Well it's pretty cool that you're telling things about myself (true facts) just based on my dream experience.


EBsomniator on 2015-04-04 said:
That's how a correct dream interpretation works. I'm glad it helped. Hey, I'm looking for some really scary nightmares to take a look at, preferably all in black and white. Ever have any of those?


Stuart92 on 2015-04-04 said:
Well in childhood. I had e nightmare series when a person but a scary one, with blood at his mouth (the scary face was from a music tape cover ) wanted to harm me. The first dream, was womething like this. I was in the living room of the aparment where i spent my childhood and there was a chaotic crowd of people around me, then suddently the crowd dissapeared and from the other room this person came to me very slowly. When he got to me he was all over me and i was so scared and couldn't move (jn the dream)


Stuart92 on 2015-04-04 said:
I have another question. Why do i often have lucid dreams, or i can take control almost every time?


Stuart92 on 2015-04-04 said:
I have another question. Why do i often have lucid dreams, or i can take control almost every time?


EBsomniator on 2015-04-04 said:
You have a lot of lucid dreams because you have not yet learned to speak into the dream and change it. You don't have to accept the bad dreams you're given as is.


Stuart92 on 2015-04-04 said:
About my last dream is it because i might fear to fall in love ?


EBsomniator on 2015-04-04 said:
No. It's a metaphor not literal.


EBsomniator on 2015-04-11 said:
Care to share any other lucid dreams?


Stuart92 on 2015-05-02 said:
Well i remember just one at this momment, i was takeing the finals exams in highschool senior year(in reality my exams were far far away), and i was verry stressed cuz in that dream i didn't quite know anything, test came on my table and i was looking at it. In the dream i was scared somehow cuz i was thinking that i won't pass it .But at some point i told myself, "What the fuck man ?You're not taking any examn, you are just dreaming." And the the dream instantly faded away. Sorry if it isn't spectacular if i remember anything i will share to you


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